MarriedToWildflowers

Merry Christmas, y’all! Like in many families around the world, Christmas looked a little different this year. Usually, I’m getting anxiety about spending the day at my grandmas house around a lot of people but this year, we decided to play it safe and stay distant. I am loving social distancing! I no longer say “yes” to hanging out with people I would rather text, I don’t feel pressured to have unnecessary conversations with people standing in line at stores & I don’t have to worry about someone standing too close to me! This is a dream come true for us introverts!

However, I will say that opening presents virtually was a bit of a bummer but it was well worth not risking family during a pandemic.

In other news…

I have been toying with the idea of adding a weight loss page where my husband and I can post for accountability. At one point of my life, I was obsessed with staying fit and lived at the gym. It was a mixture of my bad job, Covid and pure laziness that I have gained weight but I, we, are over it. It’s a new year coming up & I typically have great luck losing weight during odd years. It’s crazy, I know, but trust me. Lol

Lastly…

I decided that going forward, I’m going to try to stay off Facebook. It was fun while it lasted but I became so overwhelmed with scrolling that I was abandoning my family. I was basically addicted to knowing other people’s business. 🤣🤣🤣 It’s a sad reality but the first step is admitting you have a problem, am I right?! Hopefully, this new change, as well as the weight loss addition, will help me get closer to my family. ❤️

I lied, this is the last point…

Church. I want to start getting back in church. There was a time where my husband and I would go all the time. We were much happier with life’s outcomes then. I miss worship, I miss reading the word, I miss the music and I miss the fellowship. I want to incorporate God back into my marriage. It’s crazy that when my husband and I first met, God was the foundation to our relationship. Now, it seems like he’s more of a potted plant that we water from time to time. I want to change that. I want to get closer to him, I want us closer to him.

Next week I plan on writing out my 2021 goals. I’m going to get my family involved this time. Over the last few years, my goals were as follows: 2017 was the year of No 🤷🏾‍♀️ , 2018 was the year of improvement 🤩, 2019 was the year of health and wellness 💪🏾 , 2020 is the year of learning and moving forward 😷 & 2021 will be the year of family ❤️. I also plan on blogging more because it helps my mental health to get it out there.

Anyhoo, sims 4 is calling my name so stay healthy, wealthy & wise.