MarriedToWildflowers

If you’re reading this, that means you have successfully made it through all of your worst days in 2023! So glad you’re still here! ❤️

Now onto me… I thought about some changes that I need to make and I’m going to summarize my priorities below. Of course, spiritual growth is always on the list so it won’t be featured this go around.

One thing I want to do in the new year is be more intentional when it comes to my posts. I think that blogging is a nice safe way for me to release any stress or tension that I may be feeling throughout the day and I actually enjoy it. So much has happened over the last year and I look forward to this fresh start and bringing you around for the ride.

Second thing on the list, I am actually getting serious about my weight loss again. It’s crazy because, I can lose 20 and feel great but life always happens and I’ll end up gaining 30. 😒 The difference between the here and now is IM ACTUALLY GOING TO LET YALL HOLD ME ACCOUNTABLE. I need a village because baby, I like to do what I like to do.

So, instead of taking this one month at a time, I’m going to do this daily. I plan to blog weekly about how I’m doing & try to provide updates. I have also joined Noom because I had great success with it 2 years ago! I figured, if I could do it before, I could do it again! I just have to focus and stop making excuses.

Lastly, I want to be more intentional about my relationships. Making new friends is very difficult for me because I always see the worst in people no matter how close they try to get. It’s something that I acknowledge and I’m working on but it’s very true that I was the type to cut people off before they even had the chance to do harm. I am a loner and I enjoy being a loner but, I also like spending time with people and connecting. It’s very hard to admit that I’m not the best when it comes to communication but that’s something I’m willing to work on. So, here is to my fresh start in building new relationships and keeping old friendships.

Now, don’t expect an immediate change but just know I am ACTIVELY trying to do better. If you think that I’m going to be a brand new person within the first 90 days, you’re childish and need to grow up. 😭🤣 Let’s commit to realistic accountability because hopefully, these habits will last longer than my part-time employment at 🎯.

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